{"id":16539,"date":"2022-03-18T20:02:30","date_gmt":"2022-03-18T20:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ahelth.com\/?p=16539"},"modified":"2022-03-14T19:49:47","modified_gmt":"2022-03-14T19:49:47","slug":"7-clear-steps-to-dealing-with-and-changing-behavior-a-selfish-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ahelth.com\/tr\/7-clear-steps-to-dealing-with-and-changing-behavior-a-selfish-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Bencil bir \u00e7ocukla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in 7 net ad\u0131m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bencil bir \u00e7ocukla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in 7 net ad\u0131m<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><strong><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"eager\" class=\"aligncenter first-post-img wp-image-398654 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/static.dailymedicalinfo.com\/2020\/11\/\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0641\u0644-\u0627\u0644\u0623\u0646\u0627\u0646\u064a.jpg\" alt=\"selfish child\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\"\/><\/noscript><br \/>\n<span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bir &#8216;Anne&#8217; Olarak &#8216;Bencil \u00c7ocuk&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> Kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zdan birinde veya bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda bu rahats\u0131z edici \u00f6zelli\u011fi duymu\u015f veya deneyimlemi\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak fark\u0131nda olmadan bu sorunun sebebinin siz olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz? <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu sizin i\u00e7in \u015fok edici olabilir, ancak asl\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocuk bu nefret dolu \u00f6zelli\u011fi, yeti\u015ftirilme ve muamele g\u00f6rme yoluyla ya aile \u00fcyelerinden ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan edinebilir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Soru \u015fu: \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferlendirilmeye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu nas\u0131l fark ediyorsunuz? <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bununla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsunuz, sa\u011flam ve net ad\u0131mlar?!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun &#8220;Oyuncaklar\u0131mla kimsenin oynamas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyorum, bu benim tek oyunum!&#8221; dedi\u011fini ka\u00e7 kez duydunuz? <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fu bencil ve sahiplenici olan her anne i\u00e7in utan\u00e7 verici ve can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir durum. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bir anne olarak do\u011fal olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu seviyorsunuz ve sahip oldu\u011funuz her \u015feyi ona vermek istiyorsunuz ve kesinlikle onun daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 hak etti\u011fini hissediyorsunuz ama bu duygu fark\u0131nda olmadan size tam tersi y\u00f6nde ula\u015f\u0131p onu olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyip bencille\u015ftirebilir! <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu onu di\u011ferlerinden daha iyi hisseden ve istedi\u011fini kazanma ayr\u0131cal\u0131\u011f\u0131na sahip bir narsist yapar.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu sevmek \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fczel\u201d dedi, \u201cama \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklardan daha iyi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek narsisizme yol a\u00e7abilir ve narsisizm kesinlikle sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 veya iyi de\u011fildir.\u201d <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Brad Bushman<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> , Ohio Eyalet \u00dcniversitesi&#8217;nde Sosyal \u0130leti\u015fim ve Psikoloji Profes\u00f6r\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"section-1\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">bencil ne demek?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bencillik, ba\u015fkas\u0131na bakmadan kendine a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ilgi g\u00f6stermek, mal sevgisini ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015fmaktan nefret etmek, fedakarl\u0131kt\u0131r ama bu \u00f6zellik de kendini feda etmeye ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyi vermeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in, ki\u015finin kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 feda etmesi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kendisine tercih etmesi nedeniyle de geli\u015febilir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Buradaki konumuz i\u00e7in kesinlikle bunu kastetmiyoruz. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuk \u00f6zverili olmal\u0131, yani ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015fmay\u0131 seviyor ve onlar\u0131 k\u0131skanm\u0131yor ama ayn\u0131 zamanda dikkatli olmal\u0131 ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131 \u00fczerindeki hakk\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7memeli ve i\u015fte ailenin uygun liderlik ve de\u011fi\u015fimdeki rol\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun merkezde kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in teraziyi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve etkili bir \u015fekilde kontrol eder, bencil de\u011fildir ve kendini ba\u015fkalar\u0131na feda etmez.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"section-1-1\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuklarda bencillik<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Baz\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklarda narsisizm d\u00fczeyini \u00f6l\u00e7mek i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131 bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n erken ya\u015flarda yani hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131ndan yakla\u015f\u0131k be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na kadar narsist olduklar\u0131n\u0131, ancak bunun bir duygudan dolay\u0131 oldu\u011funu bulmu\u015flard\u0131r. Masumiyet, bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015f grubundan kaynaklan\u0131yor, \u00f6rne\u011fin bu ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklara belirli bir konuda iyi olan \u00e7ocuklara sorarsan\u0131z, hepsi el kald\u0131r\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc elbette \u00e7ocuklar kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma yapmazlar. sadece kendini \u00f6ne s\u00fcr\u00fcyor ve sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na gelene kadar kendilerini ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamaktan hi\u00e7bir \u015fey anlamayacaklar!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"section-2\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bencil \u00e7ocuk ve bu sinir bozucu \u00f6zelli\u011fin nedenleri<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131nda dikkatini kendine y\u00f6neltmesi ve kendine odaklanmas\u0131 normaldir ancak zaman ve olgunluk ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e bencillik ayn\u0131 anda hem kendine hem de ba\u015fkalar\u0131na odaklanmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ama ne zaman oldu? tersi olur? <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bilginiz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kendi bencil duygu ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilecek ve ona <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">y\u00fcksek kaliteli <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">bencil bir \u00e7ocuk kazand\u0131rabilecek birka\u00e7 neden vard\u0131r. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu nedenlerden biri do\u011frudan veya dolayl\u0131 olarak ebeveynlerin kendileri olabilir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Nedenlerini \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in takip edin.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuk aile taraf\u0131ndan ihmal edildi\u011fini hissediyorsa ve en ba\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren ona ilgi g\u00f6stermiyorsa, \u00f6zellikle \u00f6fke veya korku durumundaysa, \u00f6z bak\u0131m i\u00e7in daha fazla motivasyona sahip olacak ve kendine odaklanacak ve \u00e7ocu\u011funa odaklanacakt\u0131r. hareketler. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmeksizin yaln\u0131zca oyuncaklar gibi m\u00fclk ve \u00f6zel \u015feyler. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu durumda, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hissi normaldir, bu da kendi ba\u015f\u0131na ailenin kaybolan ilgisini ve sevgisini telafi etmektir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u015f\u0131martma<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fck, \u00e7ocu\u011fa a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ilgi g\u00f6stermek ve onunla nas\u0131l etkile\u015fimde bulunaca\u011f\u0131na dair s\u0131n\u0131rlar koymamak, \u00e7ocu\u011fu sadece kendine bakmaya ya da kendi kendine bakmaya y\u00f6neltece\u011finden, \u00e7ocu\u011fun a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olmas\u0131 bencilli\u011fin ba\u015fka bir nedeni olabilir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu duygu onda kendini daha \u00e7ok sevdirir, t\u00fcm evrenin kendi etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hisseder ve kendini tak\u0131nt\u0131 haline getirir ve bu nedenle bunu ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015fmaz, ayr\u0131ca bu durumda bencilli\u011fi oldu\u011fu kadar disiplinsizli\u011fi de sevebilir. <\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki adaletsizlik<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Anne ya da baba taraf\u0131ndan karde\u015flere kar\u015f\u0131 adil bir davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi izlenmese bile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 telafi etme bencilli\u011fini geli\u015ftirir, ayr\u0131ca \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7 bir davran\u0131\u015f geli\u015ftirir. karde\u015fler ve karde\u015fler. <\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Elbette onlarla hi\u00e7bir \u015fey payla\u015fmayacak.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">kendine g\u00fcvensiz:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmemesi durumunda, sosyal olarak zeki de\u011fildir veya ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla ileti\u015fim kuramaz ve bu nedenle ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 veya duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlama eksikli\u011finden muzdariptir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ona yakla\u015f\u0131rsan\u0131z bencil olur, bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini desteklemeniz gerekir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">k\u00f6r taklit:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ebeveynlerin kendileri bencil ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck ili\u015fkilerinde bencil davran\u0131yorlarsa, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bencilli\u011finin kayna\u011f\u0131 ebeveynler olabilir ve \u00e7ocuk, ebeveynlerini kendisine rol model olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in, bu t\u00fcr bencil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6rse bile onlar\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fc k\u00f6r\u00fcne taklit eder. anaokulu, okul veya kul\u00fcp gibi yerlerde bencil bir \u00f6zellik de geli\u015ftirecektir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"section-3\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun bencil davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme ad\u0131mlar\u0131<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bencil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmenin ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tekrar tekrar tekrarlaman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 ar\u0131yorsan\u0131z, bu harika, ancak \u00f6nce siz ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveyni, do\u011fru yolda ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmak i\u00e7in bir erke\u011fin kalbinde bir araya geliyorsunuz. <\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu y\u00f6ntemlerden ilki \u015fu noktalara dikkat etmektir:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bencilli\u011fin \u00f6nemsiz bir davran\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funun ve ele al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin, sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi bir a\u015fama de\u011fil, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorun oldu\u011funun ve ge\u00e7ece\u011finin zaten fark\u0131nda olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Tedaviyi ciddiye al\u0131n ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun bencil tavr\u0131na art\u0131k tahamm\u00fcl etmeyin.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u0130lk raunttan s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131p kaybetmemek i\u00e7in ilk ba\u015fta kolay olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelisiniz ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu ne kadar \u00e7ok \u015f\u0131mart\u0131r ve kullan\u0131rsan\u0131z o kadar zorla\u015f\u0131r, bu y\u00fczden daha ak\u0131ll\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. <\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu be\u011fenin ve iyi haz\u0131rlan\u0131n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Eylemlerinde kararl\u0131, her k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyin fark\u0131nda, her \u015feye veya \u00e7ocu\u011funun tepkisine haz\u0131r ve haz\u0131r olman\u0131z gerekir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Talimatlarla ba\u015flay\u0131n ve herhangi bir \u015fekilde yan\u0131t vermezse, onu cezaland\u0131rmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3 id=\"section-3-1\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 D\u00fczeltmenin Yedi Ad\u0131m\u0131:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Sorunun k\u00f6k\u00fcne inmek:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00d6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunun nedenlerini ve nedenlerini belirlemeli ve bencilli\u011finin arkas\u0131ndaki ana nedeni bulmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu nedenle, ister evden, ister \u00e7evredeki insanlardan ve arkada\u015flardan, ister okuldan olsun, bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n beklenen nedenlerinin bir listesini yap\u0131n ve bencil davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n son zamanlarda edindi\u011fini fark ederseniz, son zamanlarda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda neyin de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini kontrol etmelisiniz. sorunu kontrol et.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bencil davran\u0131\u015fa kar\u015f\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fck:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00d6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6n\u00fcnde net olmal\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nelik hi\u00e7bir bencil tutum veya davran\u0131\u015fa m\u00fcsamaha g\u00f6stermemeye karar vermeli ve her durumda bencil davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131 her durumda, bu durumun boyutlar\u0131 ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131nda ona rehberlik etmelisiniz. B\u00f6ylece yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bilsin ve bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n kabul edilemez oldu\u011funu ona a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6stersin ve buna tamamen kat\u0131lm\u0131yorsunuz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ona empati bilimini \u00f6\u011fretin:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuk ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla empati kurmay\u0131 ve kendini onlar\u0131n yerine koymay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmelidir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendilerini ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yerine koyan, onlar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 hisseden \u00e7ocuklar c\u00f6mertlik ve \u00f6zveri geli\u015ftirirler, bu y\u00fczden empati sanat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeli ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla her zaman ili\u015fki kurmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. onun \u00f6n\u00fcnde ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131na odaklan\u0131n. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bunu, etraf\u0131ndaki di\u011ferlerinin y\u00fcz ifadelerini i\u015faret ederek ve kendi ifade veya davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n her birini anlamas\u0131na, farkl\u0131 duygular aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve ne\u015fe ve mutluluk ile di\u011ferleri ve anlay\u0131\u015f aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 anlamas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olarak da geli\u015ftirebilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ayr\u0131ca \u00e7ocukla hayali bir oyun oynayabilir, ba\u015fka birinin yerinde durabilir ve o ki\u015fiyle ayn\u0131 durumda olsayd\u0131 nas\u0131l hissedece\u011fini hayal edebilirsiniz. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmede size \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Onun fedakar \u00f6\u011fretisi:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011fun bencil davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na dikkat \u00e7ekmeli ve bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n tersi olan kendini inkar\u0131 onun olumlu tutumunu destekleyerek a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuk bu pozisyonlar\u0131 gururla ve mutlu bir \u015fekilde tekrarlayacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Limitleri ve k\u0131s\u0131tlamalar\u0131 belirleyin:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuk, kendini \u015f\u0131martmaya ve istedi\u011fi her \u015feyi elde etmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bencillik \u00f6zelli\u011fini geli\u015ftirir; bu nedenle, onun i\u00e7in, ya\u015f\u0131na uygun, kesin ve net s\u0131n\u0131rlar ve k\u0131s\u0131tlamalar koymal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, b\u00f6ylece onlar\u0131 a\u015fmaz. onlara ba\u011fl\u0131 kalmak ve ne olursa olsun pes etmemek ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun istedi\u011fini elde etmek i\u00e7in a\u011flamak ve sinirlenmek gibi Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na hileler yapabilece\u011fini bilmek ama \u0131srarc\u0131 olmak ya da can\u0131 ne zaman isterse o zaman \u00f6yle olmak zorundas\u0131n. <\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ve \u00e7evrenizdeki insanlar da b\u00f6yle davranmal\u0131, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bo\u015fa harcamay\u0131n.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Rol model ol:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuklar her zaman rol modeller ve idealler ararlar ve ebeveynleri en iyi rol modellerdir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu \u00f6n\u00fcndeki olumlu durumlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla olumlu \u015fekilde y\u00f6nlendirmeyi \u00f6\u011frenin. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla olan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla ona dolayl\u0131 olarak \u00f6\u011fretin ve onlara kar\u015f\u0131 c\u00f6mert olun. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ve daima iyiliklere ve iz b\u0131rakan de\u011fere dikkat \u00e7eker. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kalbinde iyi, ondan \u00f6nce ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015f\u0131n ki o da i\u015fbirlik\u00e7i olmay\u0131 ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frensin, iyi bir rol model oynamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, b\u00f6ylece \u00f6nce sizi taklit edecek ve \u00f6zverili olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu \u00d6d\u00fcllendirin:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Bu yolda devam etme motivasyonunu geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6zverili bir tav\u0131r tak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu cesaretlendirmeniz ve \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeniz, bu sefer durumunun iyi oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemeniz, onunla durumu ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olarak konu\u015fman\u0131z ve neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dinlemeniz gerekir. Bunu, g\u00fcvenini geli\u015ftirmek ve bu t\u00fcr durumlar\u0131 tekrar etmeye te\u015fvik etmek i\u00e7in yapt\u0131.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Sonunda, sevgili ebeveynler, umar\u0131z, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bencil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011finiz ve bu davran\u0131\u015flarla nas\u0131l kolay, basit ve ak\u0131ll\u0131ca ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011finiz konusunda bilmek istedi\u011finiz her \u015feyi vermi\u015fizdir, bu da sizin sorumlulu\u011funuzdad\u0131r. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Herhangi bir ak\u0131l sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunu veya komplikasyonu.. yard\u0131mseverlik ve payla\u015fma sevgisinde yeti\u015ftirilir. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00fcller gibidir, onlara iyi bakmal\u0131 ve onlar\u0131 en iyi \u015fekilde beslemeliyiz. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Onlara &#8220;mutlulu\u011fun&#8221; yok olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve sahibine geri d\u00f6nece\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretin. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u201c\u015eimdi sizi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda bilmedi\u011finiz ba\u015fka sorunlar\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in k\u0131sa bir yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131z!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bencil bir \u00e7ocukla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in 7 net ad\u0131m Bir &#8216;Anne&#8217; Olarak &#8216;Bencil \u00c7ocuk&#8217; Kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zdan birinde veya bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda bu rahats\u0131z edici \u00f6zelli\u011fi duymu\u015f veya deneyimlemi\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak fark\u0131nda olmadan bu sorunun sebebinin siz olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz? 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